THE HOUSE OF EROS

FIRST TIME

Your first sex-positive event: what to expect.

Feeling curious and a little nervous is normal. This guide answers the questions most people have before their first night at The House of Eros.

The villa of The House of Eros in Ghent, lit up at night

NOTHING IS EXPECTED

You decide what you do, and what you do not.

Observing is a valid and respected way to take part. Nudity is optional. Couples are not expected to play with others. Many people come to meet, connect and make new friends.

CONSENT

Ask, listen and wait for a clear yes.

At The House of Eros a maybe is a no. You can say no at any moment, also to something you said yes to before. If anything feels unclear, find someone from the Angel Team. They are there all night for exactly that.

ARRIVING

Arrive on time and let yourself land.

Doors open at 19:45 and close at 20:15 sharp, with no late entry. Your phone goes into a locker. The guided opening at 20:30 helps everyone arrive in their body and in the room before anything else begins.

WHAT TO WEAR

Seductive but clean. Daring but stylish.

Black, gold, silk, leather, lace or tailoring all fit the house. Dress in a way that expresses who you want to be tonight. No shorts, flip-flops or everyday casual wear.

ALONE OR TOGETHER

Coming alone is welcome.

Many guests come on their own. The Spheres in the first half make it easy to meet people in a gentle, guided way. If you are unsure which ticket fits you, write to us and we find the right place together.

TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF

You are the guardian of your own experience.

Take breaks, drink water and step out of a space whenever you want. Know your boundaries before you arrive and say them out loud. If you can, keep the next morning quiet for yourself.

More answers are in the FAQ and in the ticket terms.

NEXT EDITION

Saturday 5 December 2026

19:45 to 02:00 · Private villa, Ghent · From €101.40, bar included

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